LEADERSHIP ?

"BELIEF plus ACTION equals RESULTS. All motivation comes from within.  “Relationships build real motivation. It's much easier to motivate someone if you know them and they know you. After all, if you don't take the time to get to know the people who are working for you, then how can you ever truly know the best way to lead, coach, and motivate them effectively? And, for that matter, how can you expect them to trust and follow you if they don't know you as well?”. 

            A good leader knows how to obey. Relationships are the foundation upon which winning teams and organizations are built," LEAD through EXPERIENCE and COMPETENCE, not through TITLE OR POSITION. 

·        Solve problems

·        Accept blame

·        Lead by example

 "The price of greatness is responsibility." 

  - Sir Winston Churchill

"The quality of a leader is reflected in the standards they set for themselves." 

  - Ray Kroc

A person who lies in the little things will lies in the bigger ways.Honesty and initiative must be present and what  your heart desire. An eternal longing cannot be satisfied by temporary pleasure. He took all the punishment in his shoulder that all of us will be happy and saved. Real happiness cannot be found in this world. :)) Real happiness can be found through a relationship with God. To be a good leader you need God's provision ask him in everything you do and do it for his glory:) You are a God pleaser and not a man-pleaser. 

God's Favor

Seriously ? yeah ! I won in the election. 

     I'm one of the leader in our College for almost a year. I know God planned it and assigned me for a purpose. Trusting on his will will bring him pleasure. Sometimes we ask many WHY's but now I learned when God knows you can do it he will trust it on you. Stop complaining ! Just obey and do it with all my heart ♥ ♫♫   Serve without expecting in return. God is always care :) 

Psalms 54:4

Surely God is my help; The Lord is the one Who sustains me.

Ezra 10:4

Rise up; this matter is in your hands. We will support you so take courage and do it.

A true #leader!! Preaching what pleases God, and not what pleases either himself or men!!

Loving in what you're doing specially in helping and serving man kind :)

When God call's us :)

He equips.

He mold us. 

He enables.

He provides.

He motivate you. 

He qualifies you.

He motivates you to achieve more for his glory ♥♫♫♥

PRICE TAG?

Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer 

serves you , grows you, or makes you happy. If you aren't being 

treated with love and respect, check your price tag. Maybe you've 

marked yourself down. It's you who tells people what your worth is. 

Get off the clearance rack and get behind the glass where they keep 

the valuables.

            Sometimes, this is exactly what we need to hear! When we set our goals and work toward turning our plans and dreams into our reality, we automatically show the world that we value ourselves. When we daily, "actualize" our own self worth this way, we actually help others agree with us, and react and interact with us from this truth as we consistently show and tell. If others don't agree, then that is because of what they think--and do; it is not because of anything we think or do that supports their opinions... We cannot dictate, demand or control others--their choices are their own just as ours, are our own. So when we are true to our own value and values, then that is what sets our life's true course--regardless of what others set for themselves.

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MIND over MATTER ♥

Lord heal my heart and make it clean.

In our life we will come to the point that we want to die than to live empty. Sometimes we ask

the wrong things that not pleases God. Sometimes we try to please him but

it not pleases him because we do it in the wrong way.  I ought to thank him about everything all the time.

To live positively pano ba yun ? After all the pain. Crying is the one that could help you. It will wash away a little bit the pain. haha Haaayyy :( 

The feeling that no one could understand. I just ask God to give me wisdom, strength, power and also FAITH that i need right now. Something on me that make me bother "Why I don't easily forgive and forget ? " Why ?.. It takes years, months, decades to ease the pain and why ? :( 

LSS :D

Say something, I'm giving up on you
I'll be the one, if you want me too
Anywhere, I, would've followed you  
Say something, I'm giving up on you!"
And somewhere in between, life happens.

                                                                                     

 “Falling in love with God was like learning how to fly”                           

                                    

You cannot erase what is already done. 
Even you are Doctorate or Ph.D. major in "SINNING".
You are still have a great value to God. 

God  will never give up on you.

God searching for you to bring you home.
LOST People  M A T T E R  to GOD.




 YOU are VALUABLE to God ! We are the precious One. 

HAPPY TIME REALLY EXIST ♥♥♥

The general RULE :

If you want to be   successful , you must respect one rule. 
NEVER LIE TO YOURSELF.

Sometimes all we need is some personal space and time to  reflect, release and focus on all the amazing things  that we have been blessed with in life ♥. 

Sometimes you have to be strong when you feel like giving up, have to fight when you just want to run away.

Sometimes it's all you can do just to keep going.

and Sometimes you just have to let the bridge break.

Let the tears flow and start over..

Remember, No matter how bad things are at any one moment,

No moment Last Good or Bad, Time moves on because it has to.

And so do you and your amazing, gorgeous , wonderful self. ♥♥♥

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Never  APOLOGIZE    for  WHAT YOU      FEEL.   
It's like saying    SORRY   FOR BEING        REAL  .

Knowledge Without Wisdom Is Like A Tree Without Fruit" ..

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         Failures are a part of life. If you don't fail, you don't learn. If you don't learn, you'll never change.                 

                                             

I'm FEARFULLY and WONDERFULLY MADE ♥

     Every new day is a page out of your

    LIFE that is yet to be written.               
      

                YOU CHOOSE             

  the      LANGUAGE.   

the          EMOTION.    

the         ATTITUDE.  

the     CHARACTER.  

the       OUTCOME.     

When we are distracted by adversity. 
Dwell on what truly matters in LIFE.

  Goodnight.    
  TOMORROW   
    is     
   another day   
    to     
    cherish ♥     
       GoD BLESS     

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Haven’t you ever lost someone?

                             Many times? Most of the time? ... THEY just COME and GO </3. When my Mom died my world just stop for a while and my world was already to began. Being a full time SisterMom is really a big deal at the same time being a student, being a officer, being a leader, being a evangelist or a worker of Christ is really hard. But see in the past few years I proved that  I can deal with these things. It's quiet hard to mingle with them but I have no choice but to take the risk even they don't good at me. Being a Mother this was a great fulfilling experience but the most challenging. You need a long long long patience and hard work longer than the Great Wall of China, higher than the Mt. Everest. Most of the time you need to carry heavy loads and burdens that the items of the mother package. No day off, No time for giving up. Sometimes I come to the point that one thing only I can do is to take a DEEP Breath to released my depression and smile.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               

            Success is not measured by what you do compared to what others do, it is measured by what you do with the ability God gave you. Time is precious, waste it wisely.

            Being a MOTHER. This was the most challenging part of my life. Dito kung saan "Pwedeng Magpahinga pero bawal Sumuko." Dito kung saan walang bayad. Walang Pause. Walang Break. Walang Day Off. Bawal Magreklamo. Bawal Umayaw. pero Kailangan mo ng napakadaming Pasensya, Tiyaga at Pag unawa. :)))))))))))))))))

You will never understand unless you are on that situation. Hohoho

I AM ON MY WAY !!!

        

Keep calm and do good.

Keep calm and smile.

Keep calm and relax.

Keep calm and breath.

Keep calm and focus

Keep calm and love GOD. ♥

   I choose to use Taglish language on this writings . I really want to express my feelings sa paraang higit na maiintindihan ako.  Minsan sa buhay natin may mga bagay na hindi natin maintindihan kung bakit nangyayari. Dadating ka sa point na tila isang misteryo ang buhay. Madaming katanungan ngunit mahirap ang sagot. Hayyys.. Yung minsan na nakakalimutan mo na palang huminga at alalahaning may kasama ka.
      Now, what I feel ? I'm feeling HOPELESS, HELPLESS, and STUBBORN na wala ako magawa para makatulong sa problema. One thing na nagagawa ko na lang is TO CRYYYY .. to cry all over again. One time I ask myself "EZRA" hanggang iyak ka nalang ba ?. We only live once on this earth. My mindset in this life is ... eto . Minsan lang tayo mabubuhay at gusto ko may maiwan ako kaht isang bagay lang dito sa earth na hindi ako makakalimutan ng tao.. Like the education it can never take away from you.. ganun din sa paggawa ng mabuti. It can never take away from you. Vice versa ganun din sa paggawa ng masama.  It can never take away from you. Kaya nga andyan yung FREEWILL!! haha You can do whatever you want. But accept the sufferings whatever it takes. Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. Not knowing which to do is the worst kind of suffering. Today don't beg, don't ask, just thank God in silence for all the blessings in your life.

      Mahirap naman din kasing kumilos na limitado bawat galaw mo. Yung tipong bawat segundo may nakaabang sayo para magkamali ka. Sabe nga Enemies target you on part that you are weak or let say sa alam nyang mahina ka. That Satan's do he covers the truth. Hmmm .. Ang hirap maging Kristyano at the same time mas mahirap magpaka Kristyano. Yung tipong bawal kana magkamali at kelangan lagi kang mabait. Your good testimony na winorkout mo sa buong buhay mo ay masisira lang sa isang pagkakamali that's the sad truth. Kaakibat kasi ng pangalan naten si CHRIST. CHRIST-IAN kung baga .. Without Christ I am Nothing. May nabasa akong book na ang title is Who is the real Christian??.      It makes me think about it to ask that question on myself. Am I a real Christian ???. For me we are all Christians because all of us are save by the blood of Christ ang nakakalungkot lang is ang konti ng tumatanggap sa free salvation (kaligtasan) na pinagkakaloob nya, It's FREE, FREE, FREE kung sa mga bagay na libre nga ambilis naten what if si God pa yung nag aalok saten ng GIFT and that GIFT was so expensive na even money can't buy. Oh? diba san ka pa. Ganyan nya tayo kamahal na nagbigay sya ng way to have a eternal life. Even we are sinners He loves unconditionally.      


PRAY PRAY PRAY until something happened. If you don't care about what people think,you already passed the first step of success. If you are going to love someone or something, then do not be a slow faucet leak to be a hurricane.Love makes you stronger among people, but makes you weak against the person  but still keep on loving and forgiving like what JESUS do. :)))) <3 Live with love and peace <3

beee haaaaapppppyyyyy :)

                                                                I AM DRAINED                                                             

  I am drained emotionally, physically, mentally and mostly spiritually. I don't know what to feel. I don't know what to do. I don't know what's going on. The only thing I know is I'm in the part of my life that I was tested. It's like I'm in the middle of the dark room with nothing. I don't see the way-out and I can't find myself. My mind tired of realizing and appreciating many things. I'm tired of many responsibilities. I'm tired of meeting the expectations of people around me. Hard time of compromising. 

        December 14, 2013 This was the day that I cry almost a day. I want to be free from all guilt, pain, regrets, disappointments, and negative things happened to me. I was fully tested these year I don't know why these things happened .  What I'm preparing for?. And why he's preparing me? For what?. Questions that difficult to answer even genius hard to find the answer. Only I know is I'm on my training ground for me to be better. God makes it happened for a reason. Sufferings bring us pain but for me it's not. It's a blessing to be thankful because God loves me and he prepare me for better future. Everything has it's own limitation and boundaries. And I believe as the time goes by, many things will be on the way it supposed to be. There is always reason o be happy :) . Life is too short to be sad. We will go on the part of life that we are  down, helpless, stubborn, stupid, damn, useless, guilty, broken, painful, unloved but think about it. There is always chance and choice to be happy, to be free from guilt , to enjoy life, to be good, to do nice, to be great, to be helpful, to be brave, to be worthy and  to be loved. You don't need to impress people unless God be the center of our life and pleased in everything you do. Like I said LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE SAD. At the end of the day God always do a move to make you feel better and make you feel that you are special. Life's has UP'S and DOWN. We just learn how to work with it and learn to adjust. I believe that everything happened for a purpose. No one is born to be nothing in this world. 

Appreciate all little things and you will see the big surprise on it. Bring out the very best that you can be for the glory of the Lord :)             

                                                      

SMILE :)

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Challenges are given not to test you... It's to make you see things in a better way!

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